Serious Thread (whoaaaa)

Escuraiover 10 years ago

With all the coverage on TV and online recently, I just wanted to ask you guys a question - would you date a transgender person? Reasoning is cool, saying yes or no is cool, just don't put any dumb in the comments

Poll
Yea or naw?
No53%39
Yes32%24
I'm not sure9%7
Only if they were a perfect 104%3
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Sonrioover 10 years ago
Peta
unlike other preferences or deal breakers or w/e,
What are your turn offs peta
UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Giga96
as a child who struggled with what was "right" and "wrong" to be attracted to, i can in fact confirm sexuality isn't really a "choice"
This is false seeing as you could choose not to be a product of your lust and work to better yourself.
Hibikiover 10 years ago
Sonrio
i didnt choose to like goats, it just happened
underfail spotted
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UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Hibiki
no, you still are IMHO. for that and many other reasons
Which is ironic seeing as how your actions on Rose are at the core of why I don't transexualism should be acknowledged.

I'm glad that someone that abused their mod powers to enforce Tumblrite values thinks I'm a vile human, means the world's working as intended.
Giga96over 10 years agoedited
If sexuality is a choice, then how come people are gay in countries where homosexuality = execution

Why would people choose to undergo public ridicule by coming out as gay when it was still a taboo thing in society that many people frowned upon and for which those who admitted to it were clearly mistreated
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Petaover 10 years ago
Edark
I can see the compairison which is why I totally wouldnt have a problem if they had surgery, but I still think having a pee pee isnt really comparable to having tattoos
Of course it's not comparable to tattoos in the general sense of "comparable," but it's technically comparable insofar as it falls within the same category. And I see no compelling argument that sexual orientation, unlike other preferences or deal breakers or w/e, must be uniquely fixed.

Like, in an informal discussion I'd have no problem saying I wouldn't date a trans person, but in the context of a serious discussion I think that claim reveals a pretty unhealthy collective mindset.
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
weird how straighties don't wanna talk about sexuality being a nature over nurture thing until the topic of dating transgendered people comes up
Sonrioover 10 years ago
i didnt choose to like goats, it just happened
Escuraiover 10 years ago
I thought slow was joking?
Sonrioover 10 years ago
hello hello hello how low
Giga96over 10 years agoedited
as a child who struggled with what was "right" and "wrong" to be attracted to, i can in fact confirm sexuality isn't really a "choice"

e: for me anyway, wouldn't want to overgeneralize--but as Peta said it's heavily moderated by genetics
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
sexuality is a choice, in other news this still doesn't justify homophobia, transphobia, and rampant racism in the gay community
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
Peta
Slowbro
all sexuality is a choice, next question
It's a false dichotomy; it's a choice heavily moderated by genetics.
i just argue that sexuality is a choice so people have nothing to hide behind
Giga96over 10 years ago
Peta
Slowbro
all sexuality is a choice, next question
It's a false dichotomy; it's a choice heavily moderated by genetics.
UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Or misrepresenting my beliefs to said trans people to the point where they don't even want to speak to me, but yea 'sarcasm'.
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
In this thread: people getting mad at who people are and are not attracted too.
Hibikiover 10 years ago
UniversalStudios
Hibiki
zovea, your sarcasm sensor's broken
There's no sarcastic why to tell someone that they're a vile human being for putting reality before their "gender identity".
no, you still are IMHO. for that and many other reasons
Edarkover 10 years ago
Peta
Edark
Peta
But I can't accept the idea that (a) there is not a single person of your gender whom you'd date and (b) it's actually impossible as a matter of theory for there to exist someone of your gender whom you'd date.
Why cant you accept these 2 ideas? Are you just making some sort of probability argument or are you arguing that heterosexuality is a choice?
I'm saying that gender is a glorified deal breaker. It's a big enough deal for people to use labels like gay/straight/bi/whatever, whereas we lack concise labels for "dater only of non-tattooed people" or "dater only of people with a college degree," but really the matter of whether or not you'd date someone of a certain gender falls under the same umbrella category as these things. And I probably can't prove it, but I think it's the human condition to discover and reserve exceptions, for oneself, to all deal breakers. I used to loathe tattoos because I was raised by WASP-y Americans. Then I met someone with tattoos and I realized that that's a ridiculous reason to rule out someone to whom you're really attracted. Obviously gender preference is a much bigger deal than tattoos, it's genetically ingrained, etc., but I don't see any reason to think it's set in stone. Heterosexuality isn't a choice, but it's also not an immutable law.
I can see the compairison which is why I totally wouldnt have a problem if they had surgery, but I still think having a pee pee isnt really comparable to having tattoos
UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Hibiki
zovea, your sarcasm sensor's broken
There's no sarcastic why to tell someone that they're a vile human being for putting reality before their "gender identity".
Petaover 10 years ago
Slowbro
all sexuality is a choice, next question
It's a false dichotomy; it's a choice heavily moderated by genetics.
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Uranusover 10 years ago
It's totally understandable that a person might have some subconscious aversion to dating a person that has some strong association to a gender they're not compatible with.

And like, yeah with enough effort you might overcome those schemas which prevent your attraction to a transgender person. But quite frankly it's not worth my effort to push someone through overcoming that.
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UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Devante
i wouldn't date tumblr activists
If I get the chance to make it to one of their conventions I'm going with a tshirt launcher loaded with Bibles.
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Hibikiover 10 years ago
zovea, your sarcasm sensor's broken
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
all sexuality is a choice, next question
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
Edark
Hibiki
"attraction is not a choice therefore no" is a bullshít answer considering the brain will never be hard wired to only ever find attraction to "Genuine" Femininity or Váginas
Is homosexuality a choice?
yes