are you a - or + influence irl?

mindfulabout 10 years ago

do you see everything in a negative way? for example, if i asked you to travel with me, would you firstly think about negative part of a thing (ex. will there be a car accident?) rather than just being excited about the journey.

i'm like that with a lot of other things. i'm always positive about travelling though

citeopmIabout 10 years ago
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deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
I am pretty negative about a lot of things because my mom raised me to believe everything is out to get me
Escuraiabout 10 years ago
For me it depends on the time of the month
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deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
I'm right in between
xJuicyabout 10 years ago
im positive of these negative vibes
Simsabout 10 years ago
is there a neutral option
dazeldafreakabout 10 years ago
I always see the negativity in things until they are memories, which is when I see how good it really was.

That applies to almost everything. Lol
jackabout 10 years ago
i mean i definitely have some things where i immediately think of negative outcomes before positive ones, but i think overall i'm a pretty positive person
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mindfulabout 10 years ago
more like empty
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
nah brah i got more
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
i have more tho
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
veryniceboy
i am probably a pretty reckless person all around tbh. i think i have street smarts to compensate for that tho lol
ditto
denialabout 10 years ago
Becomeclear
not gonna lie theres no positive side to travelling with you mindful I think a better example should be put in place
do u see the cup half full or half empty
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
i am probably a pretty reckless person all around tbh. i think i have street smarts to compensate for that tho lol
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
mindful
i remember when i got offered with a job, i thought about "will i be able to make a living with the salary?" i think it's good to think about negative things first before positive sometimes
that's not negative, that's being realistic. things like cars, houses, jobs etc. you have positive and negative thoughts but the primary concern should be feasibility and what's realistic, which is what your thoughts were.

in terms of travelling, thinking "oh i could get this disease" would be negative, whereas like "we'd have a great time" is obvs positive.
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
because this thread seems counter to my 'live in the moment' spiel from earlier on lol
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
I think of a lot of negative things first like danger mostly cause I'm scared but if there's nothing dangerous I normally think positive
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
Why r u saying that lol
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
i do not think cheating on girls is a very nice thing to do ftr
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
Mostly positive. I'm only negative when people around me are negative af.
ScarletWolfabout 10 years ago
Positive about experiencing new things & traveling.

Negative about work.

Negative (sometimes) about school.

Negative about meeting new people.
mindfulabout 10 years ago
Giga13
i'm positive. my last girlfriend was so negative that it caused me to break up with her. i was tired of having to always reassure her of e v e r y t h i n g
seems like she is pessimistic. i used to be like that and i guess i just changed a lot lol
mindfulabout 10 years ago
i remember when i got offered with a job, i thought about "will i be able to make a living with the salary?" i think it's good to think about negative things first before positive sometimes
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
positive i would always want to travel or go hiking and see the world *_*
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Giga13about 10 years agoedited
i'm positive. my last girlfriend was so negative that it caused me to break up with her. i was tired of having to always reassure her of e v e r y t h i n g