ace in lgbt

Derpez101almost 8 years ago

im so tired of people not recognizing ace/aro people as lgbt. what yall think????

this is coming from the big gay herself so i think i can speak on this issue

Poll
what yall think
no not really74%23
they gay25%8
Vapidalmost 8 years ago
Mori
cowboy
ace ppl have never been oppressed like the LGBT community. ace isnt even a sexuality, its a lack of sexual attraction. NEXT
Wrong. Ace people are invisibilized and invalidated constantly.
How? Their moms gets upset they won't have grand kids.

Asexual people are full of . I doubt there's one asexual dude here who doesn't jack it.
Captchaalmost 8 years ago
Asexual people are in LGBTQ+ because their sexuality deviates from the heterosexual normal.
sl0ndermanalmost 8 years ago
yachi
sl0nderman
Mori
AroAce people belong in LGTB spaces.
so as we can see, saying that an asexual belongs to a community that is DEFINED by their sexual attraction is a paradox.
cant u use this argument with ace/aro people since they are also defined by their sexuality or lack of sexual attraction
nah you're not getting it. the common thread between all LGB is same sex attraction. asexuals defy this trait.
yachialmost 8 years ago
sl0nderman
Mori
AroAce people belong in LGTB spaces.
so as we can see, saying that an asexual belongs to a community that is DEFINED by their sexual attraction is a paradox.
cant u use this argument with ace/aro people since they are also defined by their sexuality or lack of sexual attraction
dzkealmost 8 years ago
I think that this needs to be clarified: Ace and aro people are not INHERENTLY LGBT. However, if ace/aro people are lesbian, gay, bi, or trans(lumping all genders that are NOT cisgendered under trans) they are LGBT. On the other hand, if you are a straight, cisgendered ace/aro, you are not LGBT.

The LGBT community is not a club, despite how popular and open it is these days. It is for combating homophobia and transphobia. It is still illegal to be LGBT in several places. It isn't fun.
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slorpalmost 8 years ago
ace people wanna be oppressed so bad just go home and evaluate ur life
ulmaridaealmost 8 years ago
tbh sometimes i gotta wonder how often disinterest gets misidentified as not experiencing attraction at all
ulmaridaealmost 8 years ago
gotta say a whole lotta asexual problems stem much more from misogyny and the whole family values bullshìte than something even remotely mirroring homophobia
sl0ndermanalmost 8 years ago
Mori
AroAce people belong in LGTB spaces.
sure lets just run through some definitions first

>asexual (a.): without sexual feelings

>lesbian (n.): a homosexual female

>gay (n.): a homosexual male

>bisexual (a.): being sexually attracted to both men and women

and if anyone forgot homosexual (a.): being attracted to one's own sex

so as we can see, saying that an asexual belongs to a community that is DEFINED by their sexual attraction is a paradox. The exception of course would be a trans asexual person, so to be more accurate, cis asexuals do not belong is the lgbt community. LGBT is NOT a catch-all for marginalized groups.
Mikialmost 8 years ago
it's a shame those people exist but i hope most ace/aro people realise for the most part, they're accepted
Mikialmost 8 years ago
it's a tiny portion of the LGBTQ community that do not consider ace/aro as part of their community
Morialmost 8 years ago
cowboy
ace ppl have never been oppressed like the LGBT community. ace isnt even a sexuality, its a lack of sexual attraction. NEXT
Wrong. Ace people are invisibilized and invalidated constantly.
Morialmost 8 years ago
AroAce people belong in LGTB spaces.
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Devantealmost 8 years ago
Just don’t fk and move on lol

Say you’re a nun or something
Devantealmost 8 years ago
Where is an asexual person marginalized/oppressed ?? An orgy nightclub?? The local s*x shop??
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sl0ndermanalmost 8 years ago
Magician
sl0nderman
The GLB community isn't just automatically accepting of every out-of-the-norm sexual preferences. In fact, it's very specifically about those who experience same sex attraction. By conflating the acronym, and, by expansion, the community, with people who don't fit that simple definition, then what's the point of identifying the community in the first place?
really slick how you a. rephrased it to prioritize gay men first instead of using the commonly accepted ordering of the acronym and b. dropped the T like no one would notice
not surprised a mod missed the point
blood4bloodgodalmost 8 years ago
Is this what all those civil liberties marchers, those great men who gave a sh!t, got beat and killed in the streets for... So some 19yr old turds, who never stood for a single fking thing in their little lives, could bicker about who can and can't be in some irrelevant imaginary club and what letters this little tea party can put in the name? God damn disgrace you lot are.
Kireialmost 8 years ago
shut up libtard
deleteddeletedalmost 8 years ago
sl0nderman
The GLB community isn't just automatically accepting of every out-of-the-norm sexual preferences. In fact, it's very specifically about those who experience same sex attraction. By conflating the acronym, and, by expansion, the community, with people who don't fit that simple definition, then what's the point of identifying the community in the first place?
really slick how you a. rephrased it to prioritize gay men first instead of using the commonly accepted ordering of the acronym and b. dropped the T like no one would notice
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sl0ndermanalmost 8 years agoedited
gaysayer
Her
In fact, trans people have nothing to do with sexual attraction, and they're LGBT. Romantic attraction may still exist for an asexual person.
that's it, that's the thread. if there's a place for the trans community within the lgbt one (and there is!) then there's a place for the ace community, as well. baffling to me that people would want to create even more division and exclusivity w/r/t something like this, but that's life.
deleteddeletedalmost 8 years ago
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gaysayeralmost 8 years ago
Her
In fact, trans people have nothing to do with sexual attraction, and they're LGBT. Romantic attraction may still exist for an asexual person.
that's it, that's the thread. if there's a place for the trans community within the lgbt one (and there is!) then there's a place for the ace community, as well. baffling to me that people would want to create even more division and exclusivity w/r/t something like this, but that's life.
sl0ndermanalmost 8 years agoedited
The GLB community isn't just automatically accepting of every out-of-the-norm sexual preferences. In fact, it's very specifically about those who experience same sex attraction. By conflating the acronym, and, by expansion, the community, with people who don't fit that simple definition, then what's the point of identifying the community in the first place?
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MisterPresidentalmost 8 years ago
Who even cares what group they are in

Let's just support everyone who needs it no matter what degree of hurt/oppression they deal with

You don't need to be a part of every group but there's always room for support
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viewalmost 8 years ago
bottomphobia never sleeps huh :/
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