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Rutabalmost 10 years ago
I am a very emotionally weak person
poseralmost 10 years ago
agreed with dahlia but also if it does still feel weird i'm sure it's mutual and instead of letting it get to you you should focus on what uni is actually for which is your future and career, just pretend she's not there and if you must interact it's probably going to be easy to be neutral
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deleteddeletedalmost 10 years ago
If you break up, a year should be long enough to get to a level where you can be around her without feeling awkward. I wouldn't worry about the future that much right now
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deleteddeletedalmost 10 years ago
"break" is code word for "im bonking other guys with bigger dinks than you and i wanna see if theyll be in a relationship with me but if they dont ur my fallback plan"
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
I don't know what I am going to do if we break up

She is coming to my university next year and it makes me want to die
deleteddeletedalmost 10 years ago
it might be hard but you really have to give her the time to realize what its like without you in her life. Hopefully she makes the right decision when she realizes what she's missing
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
That's what I told her but then she said "Why won't you just let me have time to think?" when I first said "I don't want to take a break"
poseralmost 10 years ago
it sounds more like she's creating something out of nothing and she may just be hiding the actual reason that she's wanting a break at all. i think breaks are silly too, i don't think its fair to basically claim someone without having them as yours specifically. you deserve someone who will proudly always want you around
jackalmost 10 years ago
i'm with rose on this. i think giving her a small fraction of time (a week is good) to let her analyze how a break feels differently to her, and then hitting her with an ultimatum is a smart move
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
I don't know Rose I am just as confused as you
poseralmost 10 years ago
i don't think that being different is an issue at all, i think she's looking into things way too seriously. ppl say opposites attract and it's obv said for a reason, in the end i think it creates a decent balance. also "time for a relationship"? how do lawyers and doctors manage to have relationships lol it sounds more like she's magnifying smaller issues and making them larger ones. u should deffo give an ultimatum sometime soon
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Rutabalmost 10 years ago
jack
Rutab
My girlfriend and I are "on break" and it hurts really bad
don't sleep with any other girls whilst on break, trust me i've watched friends
I would not ever think of it.

We're basically in the "not dating, but not single" stage.

She's busy with a lot of stuff right now and it might be that way for a while, so she doesn't know if she has time for a relationship. On top of that, she thinks we're a little different, which I agree with. The only thing is that we both knew we were different, but I thought of it as "she completes the parts of me that are missing."

I don't know my chest hurts really bad and this has never happened before. This basically came up out of nowhere.

I decided that this "break" is going to last a week tops before I text her an all-or-nothing proposal.

I don't want this to end, ever.
jackalmost 10 years ago
Rutab
My girlfriend and I are "on break" and it hurts really bad
don't sleep with any other girls whilst on break, trust me i've watched friends
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poseralmost 10 years ago
care to explain? i'm also available for PMs if necessary
Arcbellalmost 10 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that rutab
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
My girlfriend and I are "on break" and it hurts really bad
Simsalmost 10 years ago
what happened my dear Rutabaga
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
haha wow all the sudden in a matter of minutes i really am not happy in life
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
Hey Devante, the election is over.



Trump wins. God says so.
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
Pitch
do u believe that faith can move mountains rutab?
Be more specific
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
Escurai
sex with whoever you want for 24h over the course of your life or £1,000,000?
Ya, I would take the money, except not in Euros

Money would be more beneficial
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
yoyo200900
What really grinds your gears?
What really grinds my gears is when someone is disrespectful to you even though you've never spoken to them
Rutabalmost 10 years ago
Pitch
u ever see in the departed where leo's getting psychoanalysed by the lady and he's like 'do u lie?' and she says 'ya, to keep things on an even keel' and he knows one of her parents was an alcoholic lol

how does he know rutab?
I don't know what you're referencing or what you're saying
Pitchalmost 10 years ago
i am very probably gonna have sex with lana del rey this weekend
Pitchalmost 10 years ago
do u believe that faith can move mountains rutab?