Red flags

deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago

What are some things that you personally see as red flags and make you take a step back and reconsider things before/during dating someone?

deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
It's not shallow to have preferences on things outside of personality
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
izzy
harodihg
Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.
depends on where they are/what they are. an arrow? hipster, but not bad. a tattoo of their ex's name? not a good sign. multiple ear piercings are fine, but a genital piercing.... not for me.
What about pearling.
Sincerelyabout 10 years agoedited
vilden
jesus i dont agree w/ sincerely on literally anything
i'd make a narcissistic comment as epicmafia has taught me to do in that situation except i'm totally, openly uneducated and outclassed in this specific "field"
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
izzy
also faking your own suicide on the internet is probably a pretty big red flag, but what do i know :^)
Agreed I would never date anyone who does that.
Becomeclearabout 10 years ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vwNcNOTVzY
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vildenabout 10 years ago
jesus i dont agree w/ sincerely on literally anything
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
I use Tinder, what are you talking about Sincerely?
Sincerelyabout 10 years agoedited
harodihg
What about if they use Tinder?
this is not me saying dating sites are cool (I wouldn't know) but what about you just judge them on their personality instead of these shallow individual traits you're coming up with?

edit: fixed bc togepi's probably right-er
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Togepiabout 10 years ago
Using social apps for dating shouldn't be considered weird tbh.
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deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
My biggest red flag is anyone who posts in this thread, including myself.
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jackabout 10 years ago
harodihg
What about if they use Tinder?
tell every girl on tinder that they're weird for using tinder
Sincerelyabout 10 years ago
annajane
harodihg
Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.
ignorant
if the stereotype exists then playing to it is a possibility, and I wouldn't necessarily consider it ignorant to avoid that particular stereotype, but that obviously doesn't always apply which harodihg ought to (and probably does) know
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
What about if they use Tinder?
Togepiabout 10 years ago
harodihg
Togepi
harodihg
What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?
It could get stuck. :(
h-hawt...
What a freak.
vildenabout 10 years ago
unless it's harodihg then it getting stuck is prob not going to happen
athenaabout 10 years ago
harodihg
Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.
ignorant
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deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
Togepi
harodihg
What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?
It could get stuck. :(
h-hawt...
Togepiabout 10 years ago
harodihg
What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?
It could get stuck. :(
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Togepiabout 10 years ago
Sincerely
Retti
Togepi
Is Retti.
my hands are clean
is that code for "I've never actually dated before"?
O.O
jackabout 10 years agoedited
harodihg
What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?
HOW IS THAT A THING
Sincerelyabout 10 years ago
Retti
Togepi
Is Retti.
my hands are clean
is that code for "I've never actually dated before"?
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?
jackabout 10 years ago
harodihg
Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.
definitely a personal preference thing, though they would be red flags for me
deleteddeletedabout 10 years ago
harodihg
Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.
depends on where they are/what they are. an arrow? hipster, but not bad. a tattoo of their ex's name? not a good sign. multiple ear piercings are fine, but a genital piercing.... not for me.
Togepiabout 10 years ago
harodihg
Togepi
If the sex is not good.
Josie f*cks on the first date
No I need at least 3 dinners.