How the HECK

Lyciiover 10 years ago

do you get over someone that you were with for a year+ and lived with? I've never experienced this before and I need help before I die of chest pain.

UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Your primary concern should be whether you actually want to stay with your grandparents and how you moving in is going to impact them.
vildenover 10 years ago
lycii do you live in california or anywhere near los angeles cuz i can maybe talk krystal into it
UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
Lycii
I'm mostly just looking for ways to keep my mind off of it or to ease the pain a little. I've had to deal with break ups but never with completely changing my life around like this.
There's no such thing. It's like saying "My leg got cut off and I want to stop thinking about walking."
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
Lycii
mindful
sign up for gym (did you know that you can use health insurance for cheap membership?) you'll feel so much better and working out helps you forget problems w/ ppl !!!!

or consider taking art class (like drawing, making pottery, etc) - the more u express ur feelings the less intense it gets

good luck
Thank you so much! Those are really good ideas.
i edited + added this: "from my experience, try not to talk to people about ur ex too much because you never get to focus on yourself alone and actually get repaired. also ppl usually dont like hearing about the relationship problems. try to do something that you can do alone."
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Lyciiover 10 years ago
vilden
I don't think you should rebound cuz you might think less of yourself afterwards, or feel ashamed. unless ofc your rebound is with me and krystal in a 3way
10/10 idea
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
keri
harodihg
You have to build a life that doesn't remind you of that person and makes you happy independent of anyone else
this is so important you gotta take baby steps
wtf u negged his comment
vildenover 10 years ago
I don't think you should rebound cuz you might think less of yourself afterwards, or feel ashamed. unless ofc your rebound is with me and krystal in a 3way
Lyciiover 10 years ago
mindful
sign up for gym (did you know that you can use health insurance for cheap membership?) you'll feel so much better and working out helps you forget problems w/ ppl !!!!

or consider taking art class (like drawing, making pottery, etc) - the more u express ur feelings the less intense it gets

good luck
Thank you so much! Those are really good ideas.
deleteddeletedover 10 years agoedited
sign up for gym (did you know that you can use health insurance for cheap membership?) you'll feel so much better and working out helps you forget problems w/ ppl !!!!

or consider taking art class (like drawing, making pottery, etc) - the more u express ur feelings the less intense it gets

from my experience, try not to talk to people about ur ex too much because you never get to focus on yourself alone and actually get repaired. also ppl usually dont like hearing about the relationship problems. try to do something that you can do alone.

good luck
Lyciiover 10 years ago
Thank you all for being helpful. Keep the ideas and advice coming! I appreciate it so much.
Lyciiover 10 years ago
UniversalStudios
You're not going to get over in a day/week/month. It's up to you to control your emotions and keep your life together.
I'm mostly just looking for ways to keep my mind off of it or to ease the pain a little. I've had to deal with break ups but never with completely changing my life around like this.
UniversalStudiosover 10 years ago
You're not going to get over in a day/week/month. It's up to you to control your emotions and keep your life together.
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
I leave my curtains open at night hoping someone will look in and see me, but nobody ever does. I'm not an exhibitionist, I'm just lonely.
projectmattover 10 years ago
try going on long walks. go get lost somewhere. it's super useful for clarity and to figure stuff out, in my experience.
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deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
anything and loud music really
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deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
long walks and loud music
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keriover 10 years ago
harodihg
You have to build a life that doesn't remind you of that person and makes you happy independent of anyone else
this is so important you gotta take baby steps
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deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
video games and loud music
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Lyciiover 10 years ago
peach
shave ur head
just call me britney spears
krystalover 10 years ago
rebound lolz
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peachover 10 years ago
shave ur head
Gioover 10 years ago
Hunt
Play a game of epicmafia with mikeyru. Your anger will outweigh your despair. This is not a joke. 3 years ago when my gf left me I played with maymay .
or just play mafia in general
deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
Hunt
Play a game of epicmafia with mikeyru. Your anger will outweigh your despair. This is not a joke. 3 years ago when my gf left me I played with maymay .
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deleteddeletedover 10 years ago
Playing with MikeyRu is incomparable to playing with maymay
Huntover 10 years ago
Play a game of epicmafia with mikeyru. Your anger will outweigh your despair. This is not a joke. 3 years ago when my gf left me I played with maymay .
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