if i find the right guy after a year of dating im okay with the idea of marriage, because it beats being alone and it's something awarding spending your life with someone, only reason i wouldnt is the idea of being less desirable (doesnt really matter anyway, but marriages people usually get too comfortable and let themselves go), and with who? the right guy whoever he is.
I have so many reasons actually!!! I want to be able to teach them myself so their pace can be perfect. I don't want them stuck behind for others at school, but also, if they're having trouble with something I want to be able to give them the extra time they need to fully understand it. I want them to get enough exercise and not have to sit in school all day, get a half hour recess, then come home and have to do homework all night. Also it will help so much in high school when they get to take classes at a community college and get a head start on their college credits. :) When I went to grade school, I cried every day when my dad dropped me off because I didn't want to leave him. It was awful :{ I don't think I could bear to see my child crying and just...leave them somewhere. D: I do plan on living in a city with a big homeschool community, though, so they can have lots of friends and take classes even when they're little. Etc. I have more reasons, but here's a few. :)
Kids are fun to deal with as long as you know how to treat them and have patience. They're going to be nuisance at certain times, but there will be amazing moments as well. That's just how families and having child work.
But yeah, I'll also marry... one day, but I prefer not to rush things up and make sure I've found the right person before anything.
