- this is can get you started. but for more in depth detail, you can just ask me on specific questions you may have, and i'll answer them for you. alliances can be the most tricky part. and also learning the way host's like to host certain challenges. when you join the survivor lobby, you can go to the forums to find news on upcoming games, or you can try joining a game that is already up in the lobby itself, which will have villagers and a host role.